Guys n gals...really need ur help....?

Friends, i was wid a girl since almost past 2 yrs....b4 that we were friends for about the same time....we had become the very best of friends....recently as a result of some of our quarrels...we broke up....it was a mutual breakup and we didnt take the decision in any sort of anger or something...while we were in the relationship i noticed that she wud always show me the bestest of her behaviour when she had any problem...she just shared her probs wid me....but at the other times i felt very ignored....she used to constantly talk abt some other guys in her college....i didnt pay attention to it at first but then it became a daily ritual and i didnt get to hear much else than about those guys....out of frustration i used some offensive language for which m really very sorry...it hurt her a lot....n thats the only reason she broke up wid me....my reason to break up was her neglecting me, her constant making me feel jealous, her disrespect for my parents n such other things.....she is really very attractive and the best friend i cud ever get....i reaally dont want to lose her....i tried alking to her into it but she's saying that she just wants to b friends now...what shud i do?? I am in a terrible dilema....plz help me friends...